Solid Text Game

Solid Text Game

Texting women has recently become a large part in attracting, and communication. It’s a great tool for building attraction. But, if you don’t understand the intricacies of the “text game” it can also shoot you in the foot.

So, what do you want to communicate when you’re texting? Well, the same thing you want to ALWAYS communicate to women: dominance, playfulness, non-neediness, confidence, value ect. ect. Nothing magical here. But, I personally think the most important things particularly to texting is PLAYFULNESS, and non-neediness. I always keep texting playful, and fun. Use this as an opportunity to make witty remarks about past interactions you’ve had, or inside jokes between you two. Lightly make fun of her or call her names like dork, nerd, homie. Basically, all the things you want to do in person, or over the phone apply to texting. But, I’ve got some more specific rules (more like guidelines) to help better explain myself.

1. USE SUSPENSE- don’t respond more quickly than she does- this builds suspense and conveys non-neediness.

2. Don’t be afraid to END a texting conversation/session- if you’ve been texting back and forth for awhile, and the text messages seem energetic, fun, and you feel like she’s really starting to enjoy it… STOP! Yes, that’s what I meant, stop texting. Don’t say “bye”, “haha well I have to go”, “see ya later”, or anything, just don’t respond back. So, what does this do? Well, for one it leaves her wanting more, and she now is left with a positive, energetic vibe from the interaction.

3. Build ATTRACTION not friendship.

4. Don’t be BORING or predictable

Seems obvious, right? Well, you’d be surprised. Here’s some example conversations not to do:

You: Hey, what’s up?

Her: Not much. About to blah blah…..

You: Cool. I’m blah blah blah. What are you doing later?

Her: I don’t know. Probably blah blah blah….

You: Cool. Well, you wanna hang out later?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

This is so boring. No attraction. No fun. No Playfulness, and it’s taking value by asking her what she’s doing, and offering ZERO value. This brings me to my next point.

Offer Value.

If you’re new to this type of material, then this might not make sense. You know that feeling you get when someone constantly wants something from you. The constant nagging, or always wondering what you are doing because they don’t have their own plans, and just want to “tag along” all the time? Or, when someone is yearning for your approval? This is taking value. What you want to do is OFFER value. Here’s some text examples:

Taking Value

“hey, what are you doing?”
“What’s up?”
“Is that Ok?”
“Can you…”
“Will you…”

Offering Value

Tell funny story
Tell your plans
Tell YOUR thoughts
A funny thing you saw

Never second guess yourself, EVER! Whatever you want to say, say it. If you think it’s funny. Say it.

The Golden Rule
Here it is. The one thing that will allow you to say the right thing every time, with perfect timing, and never “mess up”. You ready… SELF AMUSEMENT. There it is. If whatever you are saying/doing amuses YOU, then you can’t go wrong. Self-amusement says all the right things about you. It makes you non-needy, non-outcome dependent, funny, and confident. WARNING: if used correctly, you are unstoppable. But, in case you still need some tips, here’s some personal favorites of mine. Don’t wear them out J

Openers To Starting Text Conversations
“Hey 3^rd favorite brat, what are you doing?”
“Wow, I’ve got you on lock down. You just opened your phone for no reason.”
“You wouldn’t believe the dream I had last night”
“I’m luring women to my house with candy. Do you prefer skittles or M&M’s?”

(bring whichever to next meeting)
(Do in person, whichever they say, pull out of pocket, pop one in your mouth, and say “want a skittle/M&M?”

“Smile if you masturbate” (say while in same room. Then you catch her smiling.)
“Girls are gross..”
“Just saw on the news burnt body found in _______. It’s fatter and has an abnormally small brain. Please let me know if you’re alright!!!”
(caution, make sure she’s really attractive, and has lots of self confidence before you say this one)

“Hey! I really want to see you but the dang security guard won’t let me in the zoo! Can you escape?”

“If you ever disappear while hiking, I’d remain in the search party until it started raining”

“Quick, respond to this text. Anything!”
Her: “blah blah….”
You: “Ok good. I had to prove to my friend that monkey/retards could text J”

Remember, self amusement. Get creative.

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

Introduction To The Real Natural Men Blog

Hello all:

So, here's the deal. A few years ago (I'd say about 3 years) I began to get into this stuff. Perhaps you have a similar story. You struggled with one particular girl, or had a crush on a girl that you really liked, and she either didn't like you back at any point. Or, she dropped you like rock and you were of course....crushed.

My guess is that you and I have pretty similar stories. A girl, in one way or another, broke your heart, and you turned to the internet for the solution, and the answer.

I don't remember exactly what I typed into Google, or the exact phrasing, but it was probably something like "why do women like men", or "how to get a girl to like you", or something along those lines.

If you do this, or search for something similar, you will eventually end up on a website promoting David Deangelo, or one of his actual websites.

From that moment, I was HOOKED. David D. does a great job of drawing you in, and really connecting to us men. We all have many of the same fears, and hangups, and if you watch a video program, or listen to an audio program you may sit there in amazement thinking, "Woa. I have that issue, too."

We all have our issues. Simply put.

I began listening to and watching every program, and ebook I could get my hands on. I can say, without hesitation, that I've listened to OVER 8 programs, beginning to end, of David Deangelo's DVD programs including Advanced Techniques, On Being A Man, Deep Inner Game, Bars and Clubs, Sexual Communication, Power Sexuality, Cocky Comedy, 77 Laws, Meeting Women Online, Many of the interviews with dating gurus, and, of course, the ebook that started it all, Double your Dating Ebook.

I can't thank David D. and all of the people involved with these programs enough. They've truly changed my life, and the way I think about the world. David D. is not the only "dating wizard" that I've studied. I've also watch many of the Real Social Dynamics (RSD) programs, and found that they contain information equally as meaningful.

Some of the programs were more impactful than others, but the real value, I believe, comes from simply being immersed in a different way of thinking, and listening to other men share their stories and successes.

So, enough rambling, what's this blog about:

This blog is an attempt to give you as much value as humanly possible when discussing women and dating, and the idea of attraction between men and women. I've read through TONS of websites, and audio programs, and all kinds of stuff. I've implemented much of it, while discarding a lot of it as well. In total, if I had to wrap a number around it, I'd say I've spent well over 1,000 hours studying this material.

Originally, this website was going to be setup to generate an income. I'll be honest, I initially had this content intended for a website to generate income for me.

But, I realized, after a few hundred hours of work, and a lot of thinking, that right now, I need to focus on bringing value to men, and helping them relate and understand their hangups, and hopefully learn some cool stuff along the way. This blog may not be the most organized, or the most fancy, but I aim to make the content GOLD.

So here are the goals of the blog:

1. Offer Value To Men In The Form Of Information About Women, Dating, Attraction, And Psychology.

2. Relay the information above through article posts, guest posts, videos, email list, or in any way that I possibly can. Sometimes, the posts may not be written by me. If I find a guest poster that is willing to post, and has a lot of value to offer, then I will allow them to post to the blog. Whatever is most valuable will win a spot as a blog post.

3. Connect with the community of men that have taken life by the balls, and decided that they'd like to change their lives for the better!

4. Provide advice, to the best of my ability, so that men may grow into more mature, healthy men (that includes me!)

I hope that you enjoy the posts, and are able to draw value from them, as well as connect with other men! I look forward to providing tons of value!

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz