Should I Really Leave My Relationship?

 Should I Really Leave My Relationship?

Sometimes I think it’s good to question your motives, behaviors, and reasons why you do things.  You have to consider why you are dating.

Here I want to talk about relationships.  Yes, I know, not usually a main topic of discussion, however, stay with me, because I think this is relevant.

Again, I think it’s relevant and healthy to question your motives and why you do things every once in awhile.  It’s good to be confident and decisive, yes, but what I mean is a core questioning.

Do I still want to be in this relationship?

Is it still healthy for me?

Am I growing as a person in this relationship?

These are relevant questions.  I discovered awhile back that your always living or dying.  You’re either growing as a man, or become more of a chode, and a wuss.

For me, I’ve bounced around from relationship to relationship, and currently I’m in a relationship that’s lasted about a year.  It’s happy and it’s great.  I really do feel like I’m growing from it, and that it’s healthy.

So the question still remains, Should I Really Leave My Relationship?

But, let me tell you what’s not healthy: A relationship that you’re in just because you don’t have anything else better at the current moment.  Yes, I’ve been there and done that as well.  You justify it by saying, “Well, I’ll stick around with her until something better comes around.”

So, what’s the problem with that? How much mental energy are you devoting to that person? How much time are they taking up? How much of that time could be spent towards improving yourself rather than sitting around just “waiting until something better just shows up”?

It’s perfectly natural to want women in your life. I want women in my life.  I enjoy having sexy, smart, intelligent women in my life.  And, I deserve it.

But, a relationship is like a trade off.  If you’re in a relationship that’s not brining you satisfaction right now, and you don’t feel your growing from the experience, you’re only hurting yourself in the long run.

It’s the easy thing to do.  Stay in a relationship until something better comes along.

Also, I think that this also comes from the fear of being  alone.  If you end a relationship, and decide to work on yourself, and your life rather than be a serial relationshiper, you are ultimately leading yourself to a window of time where you will be alone.  There will be a time where you don’t have a girlfriend or significant other.

You want me to let you in on a little secret- that’s ok.  It’s ok to be single, and have no strings attached to anyone.  It’s healthy to do every once in awhile.

Being alone and having no strings attached to any type of girl is healthy.  It allows you to grow as a man, and also allows you to become comfortable with being by yourself.  They guys that are awesome with women and can create natural attraction are totally, 100% OK with being alone, and being just with themselves.  It’s important to be OK with this.

If you’re between relationships or you’re looking to be single for awhile, develop yourself, build your social circle, and be happy with it.

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

P.S. When you and your girlfriend are at this level, you may want to reconsider your relationship.  WARNING: This video is not suitable for children and contains violence.  But, it's also mildly entertaining!

David Deangelo Body Language DVD Review

 David Deangelo Body Language DVD Review

The Body Language program has some great information. I especially enjoy the piece where David brings men on stage at various times and picks apart the body language and improves upon it. When the audience and David D. manipulate things like posture, stance, facial movements, clothing, hands, and other pieces, you can instantly detect the status and body language convey higher or lower status.

Here’s a brief breakdown of some things included on the program:

Disc 1- mating dance; body language as direct communication

Disc 2- how status conveyed through body language; walking/posture; body language as a projection of inner game; presentation by Mystery

Disc 3- Mystery continuation; Steve and Eric (A.K.A. Steve P. and Hypnotica). Both go into some NLP and a few brief exercises. Finally, Craig comes in to give his opinions and principles on body language

Disc 4- Craig continues to give insight about tactics and principles of body language. As far as the guest speakers, I like Craig’s material and insight better than any of them even though I’m a pretty big Tyler Durden fan (he’s the next guest speaker).

As usual, David Deangelo’s program offers value, and I especially like Craig and Tyler Durden at the end of the program.

The downside, as with many of the programs, the price is a little steep ($200). The program is best suited for beginner to intermediate. However, I would NOT recommend it as a first program, but rather the second or third program. Check out some of my other reviews for products I’d recommend as “first” programs. 

You’ve just read something you will rarely see anywhere else- an HONEST review. There are many great products to help you improve your dating life, and success with women, but not all products are created equally. I want you to get the most bang for your buck and only get the best products.

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• Eliminating fear of rejection

• How raw attraction really works with women and what 97% of men will NEVER know about women

• 5 deadly mistakes men will almost always make on dates

• Why women act angry, upset, and dramatic, and how you can take control of the situation

• How to flirt using eye contact and body language

• How to make women approach YOU

• The BEST date ideas that won’t cost you a dime

• The 7 personality traits that naturally attract women and how to develop them and put yourself on autopilot attractive male mode!

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Attracting Women and The Counter Intuitive

If you aren’t already familiar with the term, the “counter intuitive” is an expression that means something is REVERSE of what you would logically THINK it is.  Example, a number pattern 1…2….3….385,548,648.  Or how about red…orange…blue…green….MEOOOW.  The number “385,548,648” and the noise a cat makes “MEOOOW” don’t fit in with the rest of the groups.  Why? Because it’s not what you would logically expect to come next.  Reading women, and understanding attraction can leave you feeling completely lost.  But, what if I told you there was an answer to this madness?  All you need is the “magic decoder”. 

Think of this website, my articles, and the products I recommend as the “magic decoder” for attraction and understanding women.  If I told you the pattern was list three numbers in order, then a long, random strand, or list four colors and then an animal noise, the above patterns would make sense, and you could easily repeat.  Let me debunk some common “counter intuitive” principles:

Be Nice, And She’ll Be Nice To You
This makes sense doesn’t it?  Like mom always says, be nice, and she’ll be nice to you.  It’s not that simple my friend.  Being “nice” isn’t what sparks attraction.  I’m NOT suggesting being rude, or mean to women, I’m simply pointing out it’s simply not what matters.  It’s an anomaly.  It’s just there.  Being nice is what it is.  It makes no difference one way or the other when attracting women.  It’s like saying be nice, and you’ll make a jump shot, or be nice, and you’ll be able to read minds.  It’s not RELEVANT.  If you’d like to get a more clear understanding of what IS relevant in creating insane attraction, I would recommend checking out my other articles, and my product reviews.

Buy gifts, dinners, and flowers early on and she’ll respect your thoughtfulness
Nope.  This doesn’t do much either.  See, when you buy these things for women, what are you really telegraphing without your words?  Something to the effect of “I got you flowers/gifts/dinner/chocolates /car/house/clothes because I thought you’d like them.  I only did them for the pure motive of showing you how much of a gentleman I am”?  Not exactly… more like “I got you ____ because I really think that being with me and my personal time isn’t valuable enough so this is here to compensate, and I hope that you like them because I, as a man, do not offer enough by myself”.  This may seem a little harsh, but it’s closer to the truth.  When you do things like this early on, you’re sending a message that you do not value what you have to offer as a person, and the external things are supposed to stand in place of your lack of value.  

Think “this woman is special” because she’s super hot and do something “different” to get her to like you
Let’s say that you meet this really awesome girl.  Like realllly great.  You’re so giddy and excited because you think you’ve met the most awesome girl on the planet.  Andddddd, she may even kinda like you.  I know you probably think this girl is “special” and maybe you should be extra nice, or spend extra time with her, or whatever.  But, this simply is NOT the case.  See, women that are of very high value (9s and 10s) are literally bombarded with guys treating them like they’re special, and they can SEE RIGHT THROUGH IT.  Don’t be fooled into thinking that if you treat the really high quality women “special” that you’re doing yourself a favor, because you aren’t.  In fact, it’s counterproductive.  If anything, hang back, don’t be overly concerned about what happens, and let the chips fall where they may.  Give her EXTRA space, and distance.  Don’t call her as much, don’t see her as much, and don’t do thinks like buy expensive gifts and dinners.

Giving complements, texting all the time, calling all the time, and devoting lots of attention will show her what a great guy you are!
If the above statement makes sense to you, think again.  You may think that you’re sending a message of how much you “care”, but really what you’re communicating is “I NEED to give you compliments, text you all the time, call you all the time, and devote lots of attention to you because the value that I offer as a man is not enough to stand on its own in comparison to you.”  Again, maybe a little extreme, but it’s what’s being communicated on a deeper level.

So, I’ve told you what to stay away from, and what not to do, but what about if you want to improve your life, and success with women.  A major sticking point for me has been that I had these thoughts, and emotions that ran through my head very similar to these, and the key to success lies within your own head.  But, you must first crack through the junk, and all these false beliefs, and free your mind.  In order to have massive success with women, it’s important that you understand these dynamics.  My “magic decoder” to all of this is in many of the products that I’ve listed under my product reviews.  I can’t begin to explain how much they’ve made a difference in my life.  

Stay Tuned Friends.

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

"You're Not Your Job"- Tyler Durden Explains...

“You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.”- Fight Club (1999)

You must separate these two in your mind despite what TV, advertising, radio, magazine, and other forms of social conditioning tell you.

You see, through social conditioning, many men believe in “the system” to drive their success with women.  They want to believe that by going to work, making money, and doing things that build their value superficially, and think that their problems with women will be solved.

Please understand that I’m not bashing or discouraging you from setting goals, and striving to achieve making money, becoming a doctor/lawyer, bodybuilding, and the plethora of other pursuits in life are awesome, and can add value to your life.  I respect many people that have achieved amazing things, and dedicated their lives to improving society. But, make these pursuits and goals FOR YOU, and no one else.  Don’t set goals or strive to achieve things with the ulterior motive that it will help your success with women.  It won’t.  You must separate these two in your mind despite what TV, advertising, radio, magazine, and other forms of social conditioning tell you.

Money, nice cars, clothes, muscles, watches, jewelry, and houses are all awesome.  I enjoy nice cars and I have a nice watch, but the point is, if you’re looking to draw confidence from these things, then it’s an empty path.  Ultimately, these things are hollow and unsatisfying.  Living up to society and other people’s standards can give you a temporary fix of confidence, but will not give you a real sense of value or self esteem.  Only YOU can bring that from within, and give yourself permission to be happy.

If you follow my other posts and this blog, you may see the connection and why this is important to picking up and attracting beautiful women.

All of these elements mentioned are external factors that you may attempt (consciously but mostly unconsciously) to base your value as a man, and core confidence off of.

But, when you derive your confidence from within, you will be absolutely DEADLY with women.

To Your Success,

Brittan Benz

David Deangelo 77 Laws DVD Review

"Here Are All Of My VERY BEST
Concepts, Techniques, And Ideas...
Condensed, Stripped Down, And
Delivered To You In A Rapid-Fire,
“Affirmation Style” That Not Only
Teaches You The Material...
But Subconsciously Burns It
Into Your Brain -
Making The Skills Required
For MASTERY With Women
A Permanent Part Of You,
In The Fastest Amount Of Time
Humanly Possible...”

77 Laws is exactly what it sounds like. David D. has collected his main ideas, and killer concepts, and put it all into one program. He begins at the top of the list of the most broad paradigms, and works his way down the list. Here’s a short list of examples:

• The KEY to MASSIVE Confidence – I’ll show you the special 5-minute exercise I’ve created that---when done daily---“stair steps” your self-image to a more and more confident and charismatic state… to the point where women can literally FEEL your presence when you walk into a room (I’ve done this for YEARS and I can’t begin to tell you just how much it’s affected my life… and my success with women.)
• A DEADLY mistake guys make that prevents them from EVER being successful with women… and what to do instead (I HAD to include this in the program because almost ALL MEN make it. It’s the thing that causes most “regular” guys to only be able to date women who aren’t “high quality”… and causes some men to get ZERO women whatsoever. The really sad thing is that men NEVER KNOW they are making this mistake… but now you will… and I’ll show you how to correct it fast)
• A new way to learn and INTERNALIZE any skill---whether it’s related to attracting women or not---twice as fast (With this secret, you can “fool” your brain into thinking you are already an expert at performing the particular skill… so you do it perfectly EVERY TIME. You’ll use this trick to teach yourself to approach women, get phone numbers, and even please a woman in the bedroom at a “mastery” level in just a few short days.)
• An all-too-common bad habit that tells a woman---and anyone else around you---that you are a WUSS instantly… even if you “appear” to be a confident guy on the outside (If you don’t REALLY have your “inner game” together you are probably making this mistake now… so listen up…)

This is a pretty unique concept, and doesn’t follow the same script as many other programs. David D. claims he’s “designed it as a refresher course” if you’ve already gone through other programs. I think this is a fairly accurate description of the programs best use, and the audience that should view the program. I would NOT recommend this to someone that has never viewed another DVD/CD program recommended by me, but I would recommend this set for someone that has seen other programs, and wants a quick “refresher” course.

However, compared to David Deangelo’s other programs, I wouldn’t say it’s his most powerful program, or the one that offers the most value, and I think other programs by Real Social Dynamics or an ebook may be more valuable if you’ve already listened to other David Deangelo programs. When I first went through this DVD, I had already seen probably 5 other David Deangelo programs, so this program was nothing but a broad overview. However, I would recommend looking into a Real Social Dynamics program (all reviewed on this website), or other program.

I believe that David Deangelo is a pioneer in the field of women/dating, self-help, and I have MASSIVE amounts of respect for him. But, I do believe that it is very beneficial to get another perspective on this type of information whether it be Real Social Dynamics, Carlos Xuma, or other information set.

Who Does This Program Best Suit?:

· People who would like a refresher course of David Deangelo Products
· Someone looking to spend a little less money (program cheaper than other David D. Products)

· If you’re looking for a general reference on how to mentally prepare yourself for ‘picking up’, this material is perfect. This can serve great as affirmations to develop the mental toughness on your way to pick up mastery.

· At a point where mastery of the arts is where you want to head and you no longer feel that you’re missing that ‘one key’ that’ll solve your frustrations, then I feel that these laws are the skeleton frame of what you need to build on.

You’ve just read something you will rarely see anywhere else- an HONEST review. There are many great products to help you improve your dating life, and success with women, but not all products are created equally. I want you to get the most bang for your buck and only get the best products. In fact, I’m going to take it one step further and show you where to get up to 90% off many of the recommended products. You can click here to go directly to the signup page and start buying products. Or, if you’ve already signed up for EBay, you can click below on the product you’d like to bid on or purchase!

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To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

P.S. If you want the best bang for your buck, I’d definitely signup for my free e-course where I discuss some of the most potent principles I’ve learned from personal experience and the best principles from $4,739+ worth of products I’ve personally viewed and own! I discuss topics like:

· Eliminating fear of rejection

· How raw attraction really works with women and what 97% of men will NEVER know about women

· 5 deadly mistakes men will almost always make on dates

· Why women act angry, upset, and dramatic, and how you can take control of the situation

· How to flirt using eye contact and body language

· How to make women approach YOU

· The BEST date ideas that won’t cost you a dime

· The 7 personality traits that naturally attract women and how to develop them and put yourself on autopilot attractive male mode!

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P.P.S. While some of the products may not be available from EBay or Amazon, you can still purchase from the main websites which I provide from the Product Reviews section. Once you’re finished with the product, sell them back on eBay or Amazon and make back some $$$!

P.P.P.S. I'm including some "preview videos" below if you've never seen footage of the product. Enjoy!

This Video Of Natural Tim Is Pretty Solid

I thought I'd share this with you.

Many of you may have seen this, but it's still a great vid

David Deangelo Bars & Clubs DVD Review

“Here's The True Story Of How
I Went From Not Even Being Able
To TALK To A Girl In A Nightclub
To Literally Being Able To
Go To Any Bar Or Club Anytime
And Meet As Many Beautiful Women And Get As Many Dates As I Want...”

If You Learn The Simple Secrets I'm
About To Reveal, You Can Confidently
Go To A Bar Or Club, Approach The
Most Attractive Women, And Walk Out
With More Phone Numbers And
Dates Than You Can Handle...

Let's face it. All mean DREAM of having the skill set to walk into a nightclub or bar, have a fun night, meet a lot of women, and develop a strong attraction and chemistry with the hottest ones. This program discusses the principles behind the bars and clubs scene as well as introduces several guest speakers that seem to have a VERY finely tuned skill set in the environment.

Craig (David Deangelo's friend) takes much of the spotlight in this particular program. Personally, I really like Craig. He's got his act together, and I can imagine he'd ROCK the nightclub scene. Tyler Durden also comes in as a great speaker in the last hour and gives some of his basic principles. And, the famous PUA Mystery also joins the program.

I like this program. The program is strictly (technique-based and doesn't touch the underlying issues that most men have when learning from this stuff, but the program DOES provide an insight into various techniques and philosophies that guys that are REALLY good with women have.

I like the program; however, it's not my favorite of David Deangelo’s. If you're new to programs and seminars on this topic, it may be a good program to view, but, it’s not among my favorites. The one major benefit that it DOES offer to new or inexperienced guys is it allows you to see the different schools of thought, but also the commonalities and internalized beliefs of several different men that KNOW and UNDERSTAND the psychology of female attraction. I think David Deangelo offers other products that are much better, and really get to the real underlying issues men have with women and dating. Personally, I like Flawless Natural and Jeffy Show for dealing with being successful in bars and clubs. These programs by Real Social Dynamics are among the best in the biz, although they tend to be a little more pricey.

You've just read something you will rarely see anywhere else- an HONEST review. There are many great products to help you improve your dating life, and success with women, but not all products are created equally. I want you to get the most bang for your buck and only get the best products. In fact, I'm going to take it one step further and show you where to get up to 90% off many of the recommended products. You can click here to go directly to the signup page and start buying products. Or, if you've already signed up for EBay, you can click below on the product you’d like to bid on or purchase!

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To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

P.S. If you want the best bang for your buck, I'd definitely signup for my free e-course where I discuss some of the most potent principles I've learned from personal experience and the best principles from $4,739+ worth of products I've personally viewed and own! I discuss topics like:

· Eliminating fear of rejection

· How raw attraction really works with women and what 97% of men will NEVER know about women

· 5 deadly mistakes men will almost always make on dates

· Why women act angry, upset, and dramatic, and how you can take control of the situation

· How to flirt using eye contact and body language

· How to make women approach YOU

· The BEST date ideas that won’t cost you a dime

· The 7 personality traits that naturally attract women and how to develop them and put yourself on autopilot attractive male mode!

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P.P.S. While some of the products may not be available from EBay or Amazon, you can still purchase from the main websites which I provide from the Product Reviews section. Once you’re finished with the product, sell them back on eBay or Amazon and make back some $$$!

P.P.P.S. Just so you can get a little taste of this program, I've posted a youtube video below that previews this program. Most of the "good stuff" I've included in my newsletter from this DVD series.