Welcoming Rejection

Welcoming Rejection

Why on god’s green earth would you welcome rejection, and what does that even mean? Think about it for a second. What if you walked up to a woman that you thought to be attractive, and started a conversation with the mind frame that you accepted rejection and thought that it may be a possibility, or better yet, you welcomed it, or welcomed it.

When I say “welcome rejection”, I don’t mean the welcoming where you think “Oh man, here it goes, this girl is probably won’t like me. I don’t know what to say, and she’s so pretty, and probably has all these other things going in her life. Why would she even like me? Here it comes, I’m about to be shut down…” No. That’s welcoming rejection from a mind frame of the wussy or being a chode (credits for these terms go to David Deangelo and Real Social Dynamics).

What if, instead of thinking you may get rejected by a woman, and it hurt your self-esteem, ego, and your manhood, or whatever, you thought that every time you approach a woman, it’s a learning experience, and a time to show yourself that NO MATTER WHAT A WOMAN SAYS OR DOES, YOU WILL STILL BE STANDING, YOU’LL STILL BE A MAN, AND IT’S AN OPPORTUNITY TO SHOW YOURSELF YOU CAN TAKE IT, AND GROW IN YOUR MANHOOD BECAUSE YOU DON’T NEED HER OR ANY OTHER WOMAN TO PROVE YOUR VALUE OR TO VALIDATE YOU.

That’s what I mean by welcoming rejection. Any time a woman shuts you down, or is not interested in you, think of THIS rather than the chode alternative “she-doesn’t-want-to-talk-to-me-so-it-must-be-something-about-ME” idea.

What I’ve done here is take the idea of rejection, and reframe it. Reframing is an inner game strategy used and discussed frequently in the seduction/pickup community (although I hate this terminology of “pickup” community and all that). Something to think about next time you walk up to a woman.

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

Why You FEAR Rejection and Overcoming Fear From Women

Why you have FEAR of Rejection & Overcoming Fear

Many men fear rejection from women. It’s not just you. Let me explain where this fear of rejection originates.

You see that hot woman in the restaurant, the bookstore, the party, or wherever and you feel the desire to talk to her and meet her. You feel the desire to talk to her, and at the VERY SAME TIME, you feel the overwhelming fear of ‘what if she rejects me?’ or ‘what if she doesn’t like me?’ You feel the DANGER of approaching her, and it actually feels like it may lead to some sort of physicial pain or harm if you approach her. Does this sound familiar?

First, let me just say that you are not alone, and many men (I’d say most) feel these feelings. You feel like you have two desires pulling you into two opposing directions. What’s that about?

A guy can psyche himself up for an hour to go talk to a woman, but when the moment comes for him to actually DO IT, EVERYTHING CHANGES.

The heart rate doubles, breath quickens, and eventually the pressure becomes overpowering as you think of one excuse after the other as to why you should NOT approach, and why this is NOT a good time, and what about the situation isn’t just right.

Notice how the article is titled “& Overcoming Fear”. It doesn’t say, “avoiding rejection”. It’s important to distinguish the difference between the FEAR of rejection and the rejection itself. Personally, I’ve found that my fear of rejection is far, far worse than the actual ‘rejection’ itself. The more you approach women, and have them respond positively, the less you’ll imagine things going terribly wrong, and realize most of the stuff you’ve imagined is just cooked up in your head, and the terrible events you’ve imagined are highly unlikely.

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For a long time, I believed that it was a mysterious, lucky ACCIDENT when women felt attraction for men. Or, some magical star shot by giving them the magical gift of attracting women. Not so.

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To Your Success,
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