David Deangelo Mastery With Women DVD Review

David Deangelo Mastery With Women DVD Review

This program acts as one of the cornerstones in the community of improving your life with women and dating.  This is NOT a pickup guide.  It focuses much more on inner game rather than techniques.  However, David D. does throw out some of his favorite lines and techniques.  I watched this program 2 or 3 years ago, and remember thinking “wow, that was so impactful, how could it get any better than this program?” Well,  I was right, the program was one of the best, if not THE best program to date if you were looking for inner game and less about the lines, openers and stories, and more about improving your dating life, and yourself as a person, and a man.

HOWEVER, David Deangelo stunned me when he kept producing products like Man Transformations and others that really exceeded this program.  Not to say that this program isn’t awesome, because it is, but David Deangelo is a student of his own mastery, and I hope that he will keep improving his life and his programs!

I give this program two big thumbs up.  It’s long, composed of 10 DVDs and a workbook, but man is it impactful.  Man Transformations is similar, but much more expensive.  In fact, this program is NOT for sale from David Deangelo anymore (as far as I know), and can only be obtained second hand.  But, don’t worry, I can help with that!

You’ve just read something you will rarely see anywhere else- an HONEST review.  There are many great products to help you improve your dating life, and success with women, but not all products are created equally.  I want you to get the most bang for your buck and only get the best products.  In fact, I’m going to take it one step further and show you where to get up to 90% off many of the recommended products.  You can check out Ebay and get this program dirt cheap. 

Your Success,
Brittan Benz

P.S. If you want the best bang for your buck, I’d definitely signup for my free e-course where I discuss some of the most potent principles I’ve learned from personal experience and the best principles from $4,739+ worth of products I’ve personally viewed and own!  I discuss topics like:

• ·         Eliminating fear of rejection
• ·         How raw attraction really works with women and what 97% of men will NEVER know about women
• ·         5 deadly mistakes men will almost always make on dates
• ·         Why women act angry, upset, and dramatic, and how you can take control of the situation
• ·         How to flirt using eye contact and body language
• ·         How to make women approach YOU
• ·         The BEST date ideas that won’t cost you a dime
• ·         The 7 personality traits that naturally attract women and how to develop them and put yourself on autopilot attractive male mode!

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David Deangelo Double Your Dating Book Review

David Deangelo Double Your Dating Ebook Review

    The beginning of the David Deangelo revolution. In 2001, David Deangelo released the first copy of Double Your Dating. It’s a simple little ebook that outlines his experiences with women and dating. This was the first piece of material I ever read, followed by his Advanced Series. Looking back at this ebook I smile, because I remember reading it and thinking that it was the most influential piece of reading that I’d ever seen, and was just dying to get my hands on more information. Today, I view this book in a completely different light. Yes, it was the cornerstone of my learning, and the spark that started it all. But, now I feel that I’ve evolved past some of the things in this book, and some of it’s no longer useful. This is a good thing. So, do I recommend reading this book… yes and no. Yes, it’s interesting if you’ve never read or listened to anything on the subject of women and dating. No, if you’ve ever read any other type of material, you won’t get any value out of it. If you plan on purchasing other information, I’d skip it.

    You’ve just read something you will rarely see anywhere else- an HONEST review. There are many great products to help you improve your dating life, and success with women, but not all products are created equally. I want you to get the most bang for your buck and only get the best products. In fact, I’m going to take it one step further and show you where to get up to 90% off many of the recommended products. You can click here to go directly to the signup page and start buying products.

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

P.S. If you want the best bang for your buck, I’d definitely signup for my free e-course where I discuss some of the most potent principles I’ve learned from personal experience and the best principles from $4,739+ worth of products I’ve personally viewed and own! I discuss topics like:
• Eliminating fear of rejection
• How raw attraction really works with women and what 97% of men will NEVER know about women
• 5 deadly mistakes men will almost always make on dates
• Why women act angry, upset, and dramatic, and how you can take control of the situation
• How to flirt using eye contact and body language
• How to make women approach YOU
• The BEST date ideas that won’t cost you a dime
• The 7 personality traits that naturally attract women and how to develop them and put yourself on autopilot attractive male mode!

Signup On The Right!!!

P.P.S. You may be able to look around online and find this book for free.  Try typing in "DoubleYourDating.PDF" into google.  I've heard it's uploaded on Google Docs.

P.P.P.S. Yea, I just did it, and found it (I do not condone stealing or reading this ebook without purchasing it).

Do Pheromones Really Attract Women? (Pheromone Reviews)

    

The Pheromone Question.... Do... They... Work?

    Look on most dating websites, attracting women forums, or some “insta-pimp” website, and you’ll almost certainly see talk or advertisement discussing (and usually praising) pheromones, and their amazing power to attract women. They’ll have some reviews from random people saying how great the product is. Of course, this is right beside a picture of some ridiculously attractive female…

I’ve even seen these sites display case studies of “Harvard Scientists” or something stating its success in case studies. Whether or not these case studies are true is not my place to say because I’m not a scientist. Admittedly, I’m not 100% sure that pheromones like pherlure ect. ect. don’t have some effect in attracting women. Weirder things have happened...

    But, here’s what I can tell you- my experience and my opinion. I know that it is possible to attract women like a rockstar, and dramatically improve your success with women without the need for “pheromones”. I can also tell you that I fell into the same pitfall you may be in, and that’s believing all the junk that you read saying “pheromones are great, you will see results, and you’ll get laid by women in the picture beside this review”. The truth is, I tried many types of pheromones, and saw Zero noticeable results except to a small hole in my pocketbook. Maybe there are people out there that swear they’ve had success with them, but, if you really start to get into the root cause of RAW ATTRACTION, and why women are attracted to men, you will see that this is easily explainable, and has absolutely nothing to do with the pheromones themselves, but it’s merely a glorified placebo effect.

    I’ll admit, it’s very tempting for someone who’s new to studying social dynamics, attraction, and success with women to buy into (no pun intended) these products. If you don’t believe me, and you absolutely can’t resist the nonsense, go ahead, buy the pheromones, put them on, try it, and I’ll see you back on my website in a few weeks once you realize you haven’t reached the level of success that you want…

Please, please, please take it from me, you don’t need pheromones, or any other magic potion type stuff, and it will only hurt your success if you begin buying into a quick-fix mentality of improving your success with women. A quick squirt or dab of a concocted formula will not display the attractive qualities of a strong sense of values, what you value in life, strong boundaries, confident body language, a positive outlook on life, and other qualities that truly attract women. Save your money, and the headache. Besides, most people promoting pheromones have one thing in mind- your pocketbook- not your success with women, and a fulfilled life.

    So, if pheromones are NOT the keys to success, then what is? Well, luckily for you I’ve summed up the keys to success, and how you can drastically improve your dating life, how to attract hot women, how to develop your own identity, boost your confidence, and live a life of sexual abundance, and I’ve summed it all up in my free e-course called the Origins E-course (coming soon). This provides the most comprehensive insight into women, attraction, dating, what REALLY attracts women, and they keys to a life of sexual abundance. It’s up to you to take the reins and change your life!

To Your Success,

Brittan Benz

Cut From A Different Cloth?

Cut From A Different Cloth?

A big “ah-ha” that I had about attracting women and dating is a term that I borrowed from RSD (Real Social Dynamics) called we are all “cut from the same cloth” or also phrased no one is “cut from a different cloth”. What do I mean by that? Well, it’s pretty simple. Think about all your fears, frustrations, desires, feelings, and thoughts. You may think some bizarre stuff. You may think that you’re the ONLY person in the WORLD who has your same apprehensions, fears, and frustrations. But, you’re not!

The reason I say this is because as you read articles on this website, and follow the E-Course, you will realize that there are some guys that get more women that you ever thought possible. Guys literally can go to a new city or new place, not know a single person, and absolutely OWN it. They make friends with everyone, the women eat them up, and they make everyone’s night better. And, it’s not because of their money or looks, or anything like that. If you’re sitting there thinking, “Well, I couldn’t do something like that, that’s not me”, I say BULLSHIT!

No matter how BAD or hopeless you think you may be, no matter what problems you have, or fears that you think are not conquerable, they CAN be conquered, and I GUARANTEE you that there are men out that started off worse than you, and with way worse “problems” that conquered them and eventually changed their life.

Want an example? There are countless, Tyler Durden, one of the founders of Real Social Dynamics, started off about 8 years ago really screwed up mentally, with NO success with women, a major chode, below average looks (sorry Tyler), and harboring a LOT of negative beliefs about women in general. Today, he runs one of the most prominent and respect businesses helping men deal with their issues and become more successful with women, and I have MASSIVE respect for him (not to mention being a total MACK with women). In fact, most of the men that run self development companies or have products like David Deangelo, the guest speakers on programs, Carlos Xuma, and others weren’t exactly born with the skills and beliefs that allow them to be successful with women. Actually, many of them were self-proclaimed wussy’s and chodes. They did not have NATURALLY good skills with women. But, they made a conscious effort to change their lives, face their fears, and take back control of their lives.

Ever heard of Sean Stephenson? Sean has been featured on countless television programs, interviews, he’s a college graduate, a Phd in psychology, and one of David Deangelo’s dear friends. He was born with a rare bone condition called Osteogenesis Imperfecta, that makes his bones extremely brittle and him extremely fragile. He’s been confined to a wheelchair for the 30 years of his life. Check out this short clip from the David Deangelo Man Transformations DVD:

 

If you think you have physical limitations or fears or excuses that are holding you back, think again! This guy, despite all of his physical issues, has a dating life, and probably a good one at that.

Remember to think of Sean Stephenson next time you have a fear or excuse holding you back. You are NOT cut from a different cloth as the guys that are living a life of sexual abundance, they’ve simply chosen to take action and take control of their life for the better!

To Your Success,

Brittan Benz

Masturbating and It's Relationship To Attracting Women

Stifler: The Ultimate Horny Male (Just For Fun)

Currently… abstaining from masturbation for about 3 days.  Feelings- tense feeling in/surrounding pelvic region. Thoughts- Thinking about every hot girl that walks by, pops up on my computer, or even skips through my mind. Insatiable desire to have sex.  The first day is the hardest.  The 2^nd day isn’t easy, and the third day sucks pretty bad too.

But, it does seem to get better after about 4 days.  You lose the intense feeling that at any point you may bust a huge, raging erection and pounce on the first attraction girl you see.

So, why put yourself through this abstention?  Sounds miserable doesn’t it?  There’s a good reason, don’t worry and I’ll get to that.  But, I’m doing it to study firsthand the effects of male masturbation and attracting women.

The Theories

I’ve heard several different theories about the effects of masturbation and attracting women.  So, let me run down a few of the very basics…

1.       NOT MASTURBATING increases sex drive, libido, and testosterone thus enhancing the desire to pursue women.

2.       NOT MASTURBATING increases sex drive, libido, and testosterone thus making you more uncomfortable, fidgety, and generally sporadic around women making you seem unsure and lack confidence

3.       MASTURBATING decreases sex drive, libido, and testosterone thus decreasing your desire to pursue and attract women.  May also make you feel less interested, and have “casual” conversations with women rather than “attraction” based conversations with women

4.       MASTURBATING decreases sex drive, libido, and testosterone thus decreasing your desire to purse and attract women.  This results in feeling less detached from the outcome of conversing and interacting with women, thus, you come across as more confident and secure.

Of course, most theories are a combination of these 4.  But, it’s interesting that there’s so much wide debate on the subject.

I can share with you my personal experience with this, and how I feel when masturbating vs. not masturbating.

If I have participated in masturbating for a few days in a row (usually once a day) and then abstain I can usually tell a difference almost immediately.  The next day, the tension begins to build up inside.  Naturally, this is the first, and most obvious effect- you feel more horny.  Secondly, I noticed that I have more desire to be active.  I have increased motivation to exercise, get out of the house, accomplish and achieve.  So, as you can see, I’m not just talking about motivation to go out and meet women (this one seems rather obvious), but also the desire to simply be active and productive.

In contrast, and I’m sure you’ve probably experienced this,  when I masturbate frequently, I lack the desire to do productive things.  Instead, I’m more content to lay around the house, and definitely loose some desire to approach and meet women.  However, there’s also the connection for me to simply masturbate more.  So, say if I do it once earlier in the day, I want to do it again later on.  Addictive? Maybe.  But, there may be more to it.  Let's look more at Masturbating and Attracting Women

Effects Of Ejaculation On Testosterone Levels

As you know, testosterone is what makes you more masculine.  For women, it’s estrogen that makes them more feminine.  Both men and women have each, but men have more testosterone, and women more estrogen.  Simple enough.

In 2003, a case study was done on the effects on males in abstaining from masturbation and testosterone levels.  In a nutshell, the study found that testosterone levels increased gradually between days 1 through 5 when abstaining from ejaculation.  But, and this is the big ‘BUT’, on days six and seven, the testosterone levels saw a HUGE spike (up to 147% increase in body testosterone levels).  After day 7, the testosterone levels returned to normal.

In conclusion, the study found that abstaining from an ejaculation for 7 days was the effective number of days to abstain from ejaculating to reach peak levels of testosterone.

A different case study reported on an observation of male rats during post-ejaculation and sexual exhaustion phases.  The study found that after 4 days, only 63% of rats showed mating/sexual behavior.  But, after 7 days 100% of the rats showed the same.  The reoccurring number of 7 shows up again.

One thing to take away from this is that everyone may be a little bit different, but, there’s definitely a correlation between increased testosterone levels and abstinence for 5-7 days.

My personal experience dictates much of the same.

So, let’s take a deeper look into the theories I mentioned earlier.

The Loaded Gun Theory (There’s Something About Mary):

Script excerpt from the movie-

   Okay, sounds like you're all set. Just

           clean the pipes and it's a go.

     TED

           Hm?

     DOM

           You know, clean the pipes.

     TED

           Pipes? What are you talking about?

     DOM

           You jerk off before all big dates, right?

           Tell me you jerk off before your big dates.

Ted just stares at him.

                        DOM (cont'd)

                 (incredulous)

           You don't jerk off before--?! Are you

           crazy?! That's like going out there with a

           loaded gun. No wonder you're nervous!

Ted considers this.

                        DOM (cont'd)

           Think about it: After you've had sex with a

           girl and the two of you are laying in bed,

           are you nervous?

     TED

           No.

Dom shrugs...Duh.

     DOM

           Why's that?

     TED

           I'm usually too tired to be.

Dom makes a game-show BUZZER sound.

     DOM

           Wrong. It's because you ain't got the baby

           batter in your brain any more. That'll fuck

           with your head, that stuff will.

     TED

                 (starting to believe)

           Huh.

     DOM

           The most honest moment in a man's life is

           the five minutes after he's blown a load.

           That's a medical fact. And it's because

           you're no longer trying to get laid. You're

           actually thinking like a girl. They love

           that.

     TED

           Jesus Christ you're right.

     DOM

           You bet your ass I'm right. You don't go

           out with a loaded gun, you empty the

           barrels!

     TED

                 (shakes his head)

           Holy shit, I've been going out with a

           loaded gun!

This theory is taken out of comedy movie, but the point is still valid.  Masturbating does make you more calm and relaxed.  In fact, some people say it helps them go to sleep.  This theory says that you will feel more calm and relaxed.  So, when you approach women, you will not feel nervous, and won’t do anything stupid thus aiding in the attraction process.

Seinfeld Abstinence Theory

In an episode from Seinfeld, George quits having sex because his girlfriend contracts mono.  Now, George turns his focus to learning and turns into a genius.  Sex now becomes less of a distraction for him and he’s able to focus his thoughts on other more productive things.

What can we take away from this idea?

Well for one, the abstinence from sex does NOT decrease distraction.  In fact, it amplifies it.  My personal experience dictates that when I’ve got 4,5,6 days without release, it becomes impossible to not feel that immense buildup of sexual tension and horniness.

So, if it’s always going to be a distraction, wouldn’t it be best to simply “deal with” this distraction? Not necessarily.

Ejaculation On Dopamine Levels

I once watched a video on methamphetamine and dopamine levels in humans and how that whole process works. 

Basically, dopamine is a reward agent for our bodies.  By that I mean that it’s a chemical that fires off in the nervous system that makes you feel happy, euphoric, content etc etc.  Here’s the formal definition of dopamine:

a monoamine neurotransmitter found in the brain and essential for the normal functioning of the central nervous system

Dopamine has many functions in the brain, including important roles in behavior and cognition, motor activity, motivation and reward, inhibition ofprolactin production, sleep, mood, attention, and learning.

To make this simple to understand, think of dopamine as a unit of happiness.  This is how the video on crystal meth and dopamine explained it to me.  An expert professor in the study of dopamine and the human nervous system explained that, “Say eating a cheeseburger realeases one unit of dopamine into the nervous system of the body and an orgasm releases 2 units of dopamine into the body.  To put that in comparison, one hit of crystal method introduces 2,000 units of dopamine in comparison.”

Essentially, the professor was trying to say that’s why crystal meth is so addictive.  So, DON’T DO IT GUYS! J

But, back to my main point.  When you have sex, and have an orgasm, dopamine is released into the body.  It reinforces that the body “likes this” as one of humans main hard-wired desires is to procreate.  So, if you meet this need, your body rewards with a huge release of dopamine.

On the reverse side, when dopamine levels are depleted, it creates an adverse effect on other levels of the nervous system that need it to function properly.  A study published by the American Journal of Psychology showed the effects of low dopamine levels on its male volunteers.  These male volunteers deliberately had their dopamine levels depleted over a 42 hour period.  During the timeframe, these normal, socially healthy males experienced signs of obsessive-compulsiveness, thought disorders, social anxiety and depression.

Since ejaculation (masturbation) releases dopamine, I think it’s safe to say that too much release can lower dopamine levels and may have an adverse effect on your lifestyle and drive to attract women, but also to achieve and be productive.

My Theory In A Nutshell

 Motivation is a huge part of becoming an alpha male, being sexually active, and attracting women.  Some days you feel more motivated that others.  But, there seems to be a clear relationship between lack of motivation, and masturbation.

You may disagree with my opinion.  You may take the argument that masturbation relaxes you and essentially makes you “care less” and give off the alpha vibe as a result.  Please, feel free to comment and post.  I’m in search of truth just like anyone else.

In my personal experience masturbation gives off a false reward thus losing motivation in pursuit of the “real deal”.  This tricks the body into thinking that it is giving off alpha male qualities when in fact it’s giving off beta male qualities.  In effect, it’s a vicious cycle.

 Masturbation= less motivation= less real sexual intercourse

Less Frequent or No Masturbation= more motivation= more sexual intercourse

After examining the above evidence I’m going to personally conclude that masturbation is best on a 7 day cycle.  No more than once every 7 days.  The concept is that I masturbate only 7 days.  If I have sexual intercourse within those 7 days, then great.  But, if I don’t, then I can “relieve myself” on day 7.

Feel free to contribute to this post.  Has anyone else experimented with this concept?  Give details!

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

Attracting Women and The Counter Intuitive

If you aren’t already familiar with the term, the “counter intuitive” is an expression that means something is REVERSE of what you would logically THINK it is.  Example, a number pattern 1…2….3….385,548,648.  Or how about red…orange…blue…green….MEOOOW.  The number “385,548,648” and the noise a cat makes “MEOOOW” don’t fit in with the rest of the groups.  Why? Because it’s not what you would logically expect to come next.  Reading women, and understanding attraction can leave you feeling completely lost.  But, what if I told you there was an answer to this madness?  All you need is the “magic decoder”. 

Think of this website, my articles, and the products I recommend as the “magic decoder” for attraction and understanding women.  If I told you the pattern was list three numbers in order, then a long, random strand, or list four colors and then an animal noise, the above patterns would make sense, and you could easily repeat.  Let me debunk some common “counter intuitive” principles:

Be Nice, And She’ll Be Nice To You
This makes sense doesn’t it?  Like mom always says, be nice, and she’ll be nice to you.  It’s not that simple my friend.  Being “nice” isn’t what sparks attraction.  I’m NOT suggesting being rude, or mean to women, I’m simply pointing out it’s simply not what matters.  It’s an anomaly.  It’s just there.  Being nice is what it is.  It makes no difference one way or the other when attracting women.  It’s like saying be nice, and you’ll make a jump shot, or be nice, and you’ll be able to read minds.  It’s not RELEVANT.  If you’d like to get a more clear understanding of what IS relevant in creating insane attraction, I would recommend checking out my other articles, and my product reviews.

Buy gifts, dinners, and flowers early on and she’ll respect your thoughtfulness
Nope.  This doesn’t do much either.  See, when you buy these things for women, what are you really telegraphing without your words?  Something to the effect of “I got you flowers/gifts/dinner/chocolates /car/house/clothes because I thought you’d like them.  I only did them for the pure motive of showing you how much of a gentleman I am”?  Not exactly… more like “I got you ____ because I really think that being with me and my personal time isn’t valuable enough so this is here to compensate, and I hope that you like them because I, as a man, do not offer enough by myself”.  This may seem a little harsh, but it’s closer to the truth.  When you do things like this early on, you’re sending a message that you do not value what you have to offer as a person, and the external things are supposed to stand in place of your lack of value.  

Think “this woman is special” because she’s super hot and do something “different” to get her to like you
Let’s say that you meet this really awesome girl.  Like realllly great.  You’re so giddy and excited because you think you’ve met the most awesome girl on the planet.  Andddddd, she may even kinda like you.  I know you probably think this girl is “special” and maybe you should be extra nice, or spend extra time with her, or whatever.  But, this simply is NOT the case.  See, women that are of very high value (9s and 10s) are literally bombarded with guys treating them like they’re special, and they can SEE RIGHT THROUGH IT.  Don’t be fooled into thinking that if you treat the really high quality women “special” that you’re doing yourself a favor, because you aren’t.  In fact, it’s counterproductive.  If anything, hang back, don’t be overly concerned about what happens, and let the chips fall where they may.  Give her EXTRA space, and distance.  Don’t call her as much, don’t see her as much, and don’t do thinks like buy expensive gifts and dinners.

Giving complements, texting all the time, calling all the time, and devoting lots of attention will show her what a great guy you are!
If the above statement makes sense to you, think again.  You may think that you’re sending a message of how much you “care”, but really what you’re communicating is “I NEED to give you compliments, text you all the time, call you all the time, and devote lots of attention to you because the value that I offer as a man is not enough to stand on its own in comparison to you.”  Again, maybe a little extreme, but it’s what’s being communicated on a deeper level.

So, I’ve told you what to stay away from, and what not to do, but what about if you want to improve your life, and success with women.  A major sticking point for me has been that I had these thoughts, and emotions that ran through my head very similar to these, and the key to success lies within your own head.  But, you must first crack through the junk, and all these false beliefs, and free your mind.  In order to have massive success with women, it’s important that you understand these dynamics.  My “magic decoder” to all of this is in many of the products that I’ve listed under my product reviews.  I can’t begin to explain how much they’ve made a difference in my life.  

Stay Tuned Friends.

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

Magic Pill Society

Our society, as well as our mental programming tells us as human beings to exert the least amount of energy (physical and mental) to obtain what we want. Anyone that has a basic knowledge of human physcology will not debate this. Of course, many people avoid this pitfall, but it’s typically an initial “gut level” response.

Why does this matter? Well, say you’re a guy that begins to search around online or elsewhere on how to “get chicks” or “get a girlfriend” or whatever variation of this. Your heart is broken because you have the one girl you really like and you want to know how to win her over. If only you could get that one girl…

So, what do you do? You want techniques, a quick fix, or a mental band aid to put on the problem. Better yet, why don’t you just spray on some magic pheromone potion, do a little ancient ghost dance, and hold your breath for 30 seconds. Then, she’ll fall head over heels for you, right? WRONG! My point is that as human beings, we want a quick fix and instant gratification. We want to instantly be able to attract women- hence the “magic pill society” concept, and the title of this article.

If you’re new to the concept of self actualization, improving yourself, or attracting women, prepare yourself for this next statement. THERE IS NO QUICK FIX OR MAGIC PILL TO ATTRACT WOMEN- PERIOD! This alone took me months to realize. Of course, I had heard people say it, I read it in the eBooks, and programs, but it never truly registered in my mind. Now, I’m not saying that you can go out and have success with women by using pickup lines, stories, and techniques. You may see some success, and even improvement for awhile. I’m only saying that it will NEVER get you the rock star results, and life of sexual abundance that you really desire. However, most men will tell you that they used these for awhile, and now as they become more centered as a man, use them less and less.

Guys, there’s no quick fix or magic pill to obtain rock star success, and a life of true abundance with women. Really, really think about what I’m saying. There’s no magic opener, or line, and there’s no magic spray or amazing outfit. I’M NOT SAYING THEY ARE COMPLETELY USELESS. But, if you choose to take embark on the journey of improving yourself, and your true value as a person, you will eventually realize this.

Additionally, there’s no article or eBook or DVD course that will create an instant fix. Many of the eBooks and programs have helped me and many others in the journey, but the eBook or course itself cannot act as a magic pill either. Again, don’t take this the wrong way, because I fully endorse many of the products out there. They offer an immense amount of value, and I can’t begin to describe how thankful I am for guys like David Deangelo and Tyler Durden of Real Social Dynamics who have dedicated their lives to helping men create success with women. I’m a follower and strong believer in much of their teachings, and I hope to reach a level of self actualization that they have.

Want some good news? The choice to improve my life in this area is one of the best decisions I ever made, and the journey is priceless (not meant to sound corny). I can’t tell you how much my life has changed.

If you’re looking for the next level of success with women and dating, I have a few recommendations for various products and eBooks under my product reviews section. As a general rule of thumb, if it’s not recommended by me, I probably wouldn’t buy it. There’s a lot of websites out there that have “reviews” of eBooks, and DVDs, but there’s a catch. They make money when you read their review and purchase the product from their “recommend lists” of products they’ve usually never seen or used before. I only mention this because your best interest may not be in mind on their product reviews, only what product they can make the most money by supporting. But, don’t fear, I’ve only recommended products I’ve personally read or used. Many of these products are great, but implementing and taking charge of your life is up to YOU!

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

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Thoughts On NLP And Attracting Women

First, in order to not mislead you in any ways, I’d like to first point out that I have never studied in depth or attempted NLP or to hypnotize women into a certain state.

So, you’re probably wondering what I could possibly say on the subject. Well, a couple of things actually. I’m neither trying to negate its effectiveness or prevent you from using it, but I do have some thoughts.

First, I do know that there are men that are very successful with women who use these methods. But, I also know that it’s definitely not the only way to attract women, and certainly not the easiest either.

Sure, if this sounds interesting to you, then look into it, but I would only recommend checking it out if the subject actually interests you, NOT with the ulterior motive of attracting or “seducing” women. See, ultimately I strive to be authentic with women, and I’m sure many of you out there are saying the same thing. “I just want women to like me for me,” and things along those lines. But, of course, there’s a fine line of improving yourself versus being authentic (more on that some other time).

Here’s the deal, the NLP/Hypnosis type approach to attracting women may work, but I simply prefer to do other things to improve myself, and make myself into what Tim of Real Social Dynamics calls a “SEXWORTHY GUY”. Personally, it’s not for me. I think other things like working on yourself will bring much more long term success and happiness.

To Your Success,
Brittan Benz

3 Mindsets To Ignite Fire In YOUNGER Women

Christoper Knight (50) and Adrianne Curry (26)

Michelle Branch (25) and Teddy Landau (44)

Seal 'he's freakin UGLY' (45) and HEIDI 'PERFECT 10' Klum (35)

Michael Douglas (63) and Catherine Zeta-Jones (38)

I Don't know but it's a huge difference!... You get the point

All you old farts thinking of dating younger women, you’ve come to the right place. Step on up, and I’ll show you all the little tricks and secrets to dating younger women.

Alright, enough of that. Seriously, it’s not that big of a secret or mystery. Why is it challenging for men to date younger women? Wait, who said it was??? Well, apart from social circles typically gathering around people generally the same age…it’s not. You heard me. There is absolutely NO reason why you cannot go out and start dating hot, younger women.

I can hear your internal dialogue already… “But younger girls don’t like older women. I know because blah blah blah. I tried to go on a date with one, one time, and she shot me down. You can’t do it. Maybe sometimes, but usually you can’t.” Blah BLAH BLAH.

So, why do you have the belief (and I’m assuming you do on some level, or you probably wouldn’t be reading this article) that younger woman won’t find you attractive because you are older? Well, frankly, it’s all in your head. As soon as you walk up to a girl that’s 5, 10, or 15 years younger than you, you automatically have this little voice in the back of your head saying, “She’s so young and hot, and I’ll be lucky if I can get her because she’s a young hottie, and can get anyone.” Or, better yet, “I’ll go talk to her. I’m old, and fat, but oh well, it’s worth a try…” NO, NO NO!!!

Let’s go over a few principles before I continue:

Never apologize for yourself, and how you are. Women do not find this attractive. This means that if you think you’re too old, and you think young whipper snappers have higher value than you just because they’ve been on the earth less time than you have, you’re DEAD WRONG! Don’t ever make an excuse for your age to a woman, or even to yourself.

Never change yourself for other people. Just because you don’t have the trendiest clothes or the crazy new haircut doesn’t mean squat! Don’t try to compete with younger guys on their own turf, meaning don’t TRY to be younger. Don’t dress like it, don’t study pop culture in depth, and don’t have a cutesy little myspace page with 1,000 friends. In a nutshell, don’t CHANGE yourself to attract younger women. It doesn’t work like that.

Be YOU. Now, let’s not get this confused with the old cliché phrase “be yourself”. Generally, I see that “be yourself” is crappy advice for beginning and even intermediate guys improving themselves and their game. BE YOU means be comfortable with your age, your likes, your tastes, and goals.

Now, I’m not saying everyone couldn’t use a little improvement in areas. Check out GQ or another magazine and look at some of the trends for guys YOUR AGE. Pick what you like, discard the rest.

Don’t APOLOGIZE to yourself or anyone else for being interested in younger women. If that’s what you want, go for it. There’s absolutely no reason you cannot date younger women. Your looks, money, and possessions don’t matter one bit. What does matter is ATTRACTION, and none of that matters when talking about attraction. Attraction is an emotional response to a person, and is not governed by the same rules as for a man (i.e. men are attracted to younger women for physical reasons, while generally speaking, women are not so concerned with physical appearance). Good news for you geezers. Haha. Kidding.

If a woman feels attraction for a man, then nothing else really matters. Looks, age, wealth, religion, peer pressure from friends, and family, and all of that junk falls by the wayside.

Think about all the women that you treated wonderfully that passed you up for the jerks… and the women “friends” that you wanted more from. They tell you how mean or inconsiderate their boyfriends act while you’re sitting there thinking “I’d chop off my pinky for one date with you.”

The root problem is not age, or anything else… They simply did not feel ATTRACTION for you.

But, here’s the good news. It is possible to learn the skills and develop yourself into a man that women find INCREDIBLY ATTRACTIVE. It’s a skill, that later, with enough dedication, will become an unshakable part of you that no one can take away. I’m here to tell you from personal experience that it’s worth every minute of it, and with today’s resources and technology, you can gain more knowledge and information on the subject than you can possibly imagine.

For starters, check out this website, and the information here. I’ve spent hundreds of hours trying to make this the most reliable and truthful website on the subject of success with women that it can possibly be. It’s important that you find honest information from someone that’s been where you are, and used the internet as the primary tool (and DVD/CD programs) to help find my way to massive success. I’d recommend checking out my free e-course on the left. I put tons of effort into it. Writing and self development is my passion as well as improving others success with women. It’s got EVERYTHING IMAGINEABLE on the subject from techniques, tricks, mindsets, date ideas, experiences, do’s and don’ts, and much more.

In addition, I personally review each and every program that I’ve watched including the most powerful DVDs and CDs known to man for improving your dating and success with women- NO QUESTION! There’s a lot of bad information out there, but also tons of good information. I’ll help you distinguish the good from the bad in my Product Reviews Section coming soon!

To Your Success,

Brittan Benz

P.S. I can hear the negative talk already about how I picked "STARS" as an example. Look, movie stars have the same principles too. These women that date older men can literally date ANYONE in the world. They're beautiful, rich, and famous. There's plenty of men their age that are handsome, rich, famous, and not 10+ years their senior, yet some of them end up being attracted to older men.

This works the same for non-movie stars too, so cut down the negative talk already!!!!! :)