Monday, March 29, 2010

3 Mindsets To Ignite Fire In YOUNGER Women

Christoper Knight (50) and Adrianne Curry (26)

Michelle Branch (25) and Teddy Landau (44)

Seal 'he's freakin UGLY' (45) and HEIDI 'PERFECT 10' Klum (35)

Michael Douglas (63) and Catherine Zeta-Jones (38)
I Don't know but it's a huge difference!... You get the point

All you old farts thinking of dating younger women, you’ve come to the right place. Step on up, and I’ll show you all the little tricks and secrets to dating younger women.

Alright, enough of that. Seriously, it’s not that big of a secret or mystery. Why is it challenging for men to date younger women? Wait, who said it was??? Well, apart from social circles typically gathering around people generally the same age…it’s not. You heard me. There is absolutely NO reason why you cannot go out and start dating hot, younger women.

I can hear your internal dialogue already… “But younger girls don’t like older women. I know because blah blah blah. I tried to go on a date with one, one time, and she shot me down. You can’t do it. Maybe sometimes, but usually you can’t.” Blah BLAH BLAH.

So, why do you have the belief (and I’m assuming you do on some level, or you probably wouldn’t be reading this article) that younger woman won’t find you attractive because you are older? Well, frankly, it’s all in your head. As soon as you walk up to a girl that’s 5, 10, or 15 years younger than you, you automatically have this little voice in the back of your head saying, “She’s so young and hot, and I’ll be lucky if I can get her because she’s a young hottie, and can get anyone.” Or, better yet, “I’ll go talk to her. I’m old, and fat, but oh well, it’s worth a try…” NO, NO NO!!!

Let’s go over a few principles before I continue:

Never apologize for yourself, and how you are. Women do not find this attractive. This means that if you think you’re too old, and you think young whipper snappers have higher value than you just because they’ve been on the earth less time than you have, you’re DEAD WRONG! Don’t ever make an excuse for your age to a woman, or even to yourself.

Never change yourself for other people. Just because you don’t have the trendiest clothes or the crazy new haircut doesn’t mean squat! Don’t try to compete with younger guys on their own turf, meaning don’t TRY to be younger. Don’t dress like it, don’t study pop culture in depth, and don’t have a cutesy little myspace page with 1,000 friends. In a nutshell, don’t CHANGE yourself to attract younger women. It doesn’t work like that.

Be YOU. Now, let’s not get this confused with the old cliché phrase “be yourself”. Generally, I see that “be yourself” is crappy advice for beginning and even intermediate guys improving themselves and their game. BE YOU means be comfortable with your age, your likes, your tastes, and goals.

Now, I’m not saying everyone couldn’t use a little improvement in areas. Check out GQ or another magazine and look at some of the trends for guys YOUR AGE. Pick what you like, discard the rest.

Don’t APOLOGIZE to yourself or anyone else for being interested in younger women. If that’s what you want, go for it. There’s absolutely no reason you cannot date younger women. Your looks, money, and possessions don’t matter one bit. What does matter is ATTRACTION, and none of that matters when talking about attraction. Attraction is an emotional response to a person, and is not governed by the same rules as for a man (i.e. men are attracted to younger women for physical reasons, while generally speaking, women are not so concerned with physical appearance). Good news for you geezers. Haha. Kidding.

If a woman feels attraction for a man, then nothing else really matters. Looks, age, wealth, religion, peer pressure from friends, and family, and all of that junk falls by the wayside.

Think about all the women that you treated wonderfully that passed you up for the jerks… and the women “friends” that you wanted more from. They tell you how mean or inconsiderate their boyfriends act while you’re sitting there thinking “I’d chop off my pinky for one date with you.”

The root problem is not age, or anything else… They simply did not feel ATTRACTION for you.

But, here’s the good news. It is possible to learn the skills and develop yourself into a man that women find INCREDIBLY ATTRACTIVE. It’s a skill, that later, with enough dedication, will become an unshakable part of you that no one can take away. I’m here to tell you from personal experience that it’s worth every minute of it, and with today’s resources and technology, you can gain more knowledge and information on the subject than you can possibly imagine.

For starters, check out this website, and the information here. I’ve spent hundreds of hours trying to make this the most reliable and truthful website on the subject of success with women that it can possibly be. It’s important that you find honest information from someone that’s been where you are, and used the internet as the primary tool (and DVD/CD programs) to help find my way to massive success. I’d recommend checking out my free e-course on the left. I put tons of effort into it. Writing and self development is my passion as well as improving others success with women. It’s got EVERYTHING IMAGINEABLE on the subject from techniques, tricks, mindsets, date ideas, experiences, do’s and don’ts, and much more.

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To Your Success,

Brittan Benz

P.S. I can hear the negative talk already about how I picked "STARS" as an example. Look, movie stars have the same principles too. These women that date older men can literally date ANYONE in the world. They're beautiful, rich, and famous. There's plenty of men their age that are handsome, rich, famous, and not 10+ years their senior, yet some of them end up being attracted to older men.

This works the same for non-movie stars too, so cut down the negative talk already!!!!! :)